Often times I am asked about my Love Life and my thoughts on heartbreak…Today…I’m going to give you what I think…take it or leave it….they are my thoughts…my views…my opinions on the subject…be they right or be they wrong….they are mine and I own them!!
Breaking up is a natural evolution…when you are trying to figure out what you want in life. If you are with an individual who isn’t moving in the same direction and at the same rate that you are…it just isn’t going to work!!
The loss of love is not nearly as painful as our resistance to accepting it. I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and then tell myself that the mended whole was as good as the new. What is broken is BROKEN and I’d rather remember it as it WAS at its BEST…than MEND it and see the BROKEN pieces as long as I lived…Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting them back together….Those who do not know how to WEEP with their whole heart….they do not know how to laugh and love either.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a teardrop….Never regret…if its good, it’s wonderful…if it’s bad…it’s experience…when one door closes another door opens; but we often look too long and sooo regretfully upon the closed door, that we just don’t see the one that has opened up before us…I HAVE NO REGRETS IN MY LIFE…..I think and believe everything happens for a reason. The hard times that you go through in life build character, making you a much stronger person…..Love grows by giving…The love we give away is the only love we keep…the only way to retain love is to give it away. Love is an expansion of two natures in such fashion that each include the other, each is enriched by the other….It takes only a couple of seconds to say “HELLO”, but it takes forever to say “GOODBYE”
Relationships can be like cheese and hard to snap, the longer you stay in a dissatisfying relationship, the more the cheese will melt and hence become harder to snap! Hence there is no point in continuing the relationship when you know it’s not going to work out…right?
I believe you meet people for a reason…for a lesson so to speak. They come in to your life and teach you something about yourself; whether it is positive or negative…you learned something from them and when the lesson is finished…it is just best to end.
So heartbreak is a chance to rediscover yourself. A chance to rediscover your inner strength, it’s an opportunity to grow and love yourself all over again. Trust me…it’s a trip to realize what I am made of and then use it to the fullest extent….I’m always going to stay positive…it’s just my nature!!
I am a beautiful flower (my daddy always said that)…and just like a beautiful flower needs water and sunlight to grow….so does a relationship in which it needs to be valued and nurtured so that it enriches your life…not make you crazy!! It requires respect…if you don’t respect a person you wouldn’t notice their good qualities. Respect is not only one of the most important values in a relationship, but a fundamental truth in any relationship…you simply cannot expect anyone to respect you or your point of view, if you would not do the same for them.
Love is a feeling that cannot be manufactured, if it’s there……IT’S THERE!! If it’s not, then you can’t do anything about it…you can’t make a person LOVE you…Relationships aren’t supposed to make you cry and sometimes we try so hard to hold on to something that ended so very long ago that we end up losing our balance in life.
Life is all about BALANCE….
Peace and Love,