the only bad thing about being single right now is that a midnight treat actually consists of food..JUST SAYIN’♥♥♥
10 Apr 2012 1 Comment
Well….Since I have had 462 requests asking me about MY PERSONAL LOVE LIFE…and If I am Single or in a committed relationship….guess it’s time I give you the scoop!! This is a private part of my life that under NORMAL circumstances would never be revealed only to close personal friends, however, since I’m writing about dating seems only fair to shed light on ME!!
So here is to all you inquiring minds……
I am very much SINGLE….BY CHOICE!!… I’m not against marriage or committed relationships…For ME, at this point in my life….NOT LOOKING!
I’ve been attached to someone since I was 18 years old….never really finding my own place in life or finding myself…..since becoming divorced in 2009.…this is the first time I’ve lived my life for ME!! I’m not ready to give that up just yet!!
I have in my mind a picture of Mr. Right and He just hasn’t appeared in my life yet….Some has come close…but close only counts in horseshoes!! I WILL NOT SETTLE…POINT BLANK….I WON’T!
I know what I want in a relationship…I know how I want to be treated….I know what I will compromise with and I know what I won’t!!
I’m not a jealous person….the way I see it….if I can’t hold your interest….there is the door!! I wasn’t looking when you found me….and as easily as you found me…there is always another one waiting to be let in…..I have so many guy friends…cuz come on….guys have way less drama than women friendships!! So why should I be jealous if my guys has girl FRIENDS? That would be a double standard and I hate double standards!!
I don’t make promises….cause to me…promises are just lies waiting to happen!! I can’t stand liars…there is no way to tell a lie without having to continuously tell another lie and another lie…until your whole life is one huge lie!! EPIC FAIL!
I hate DRAMA!!…point blank….if you got excess baggage continuously calling and starting crap…pass on by me…I will not tolerate drama…
I’m not a drama queen or a needy girl….I DON’T NEED A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF ME….however, I do like a warm body at night and I do like to snuggle….ha-ha…SNUGGLING IS A MUST!!!
I’m a little hyper…lol….I’m go…go…go…spontaneous…so if you’re a couch potato…you won’t keep my interest for very long!! Hell I can’t even remember the last time I sat down and actually watched TV!! I been there before and not gonna repeat that!! I’m not saying that I can’t sit and watch a movie with my significant other…but lordy….not 24/7!! I don’t let life pass me by and you can’t experience life sitting in front of the boob tube!!
I’m goofy…maybe a little weird….I find humor in everything….even the most depressing issues there is always a little humor and yes even death….why death you wonder? Try having GAS at a funeral!!! Lol… IT HAPPENS!!!
I’m not high maintenance….I’m a country girl born and bred and it’s still in my blood…spiders and snakes don’t scare me but dang it let a little mouse cross my path and all’s you’ll see is my ass flying out the door!! Sooo gross!!
My hair is always a mess…but that is just me….take it or leave it!!
I love frogs…because one of them frogs just might be my prince!! I’ve always referred men to frogs and one day I’ll kiss the right frog!! I have a frog tattoo on my inside right ankle.
I don’t care what people think of me….everyone is entitled to their own opinion just as I do….NO ONE HAS WALKED A MILE IN MY SHOES….NOR HAVE I WALKED IN THEIRS!!
My life is full…..I have my family and my close circle of friends who to me are family as well….if Mr. Right should appear then that would be an added bonus…but if he never does….I happy with that as well…I’m happy just being me.
I’m not a control freak or a complainer….I just go with the flow….the way I see it…you’re a big boy and I’m not your mother…surely at this age you know right from wrong….if you make a mistake…own up to it…that’s it!! You respect me and I’ll respect you…..
Say what you mean and mean what you say….I’M ALL ABOUT SIMPLICITY!!!
I’m loyal and faithful and if I’m in a committed relationship that is what I expect in return…once the trust is broken….it’s pretty much over for me. There are NO 2ND CHANCES ON THIS ISSUE…I know me….I won’t live my life in paranoia always wondering if it will happen again….
Relationships are 50/50….give and take….it’s a partnership….if one partner isn’t pulling their weight…how can the relationship ever work out? I’m no body’s maid or cook….even though I love to cook…I hate doing dishes….so…you wanna eat….guess who get dish detail?? I work too…why should I have to do all the work at home too? This goes back to that double standard issue….
Now don’t get me wrong.…I’m from the South people…we southern women do take care of our men and we do know how to treat you like a king and yes I am very guilty of doing just that…but in return…I do expect to be treated like a queen as well!! I do require a good massage and a hot bubble bath with a bottle of wine!!!
I respect myself and I love myself…therefor you’re not gonna pull any crap with me and think I’m gonna take it like door matt! Hell no!! I have a mind and a mouth and trust me…they both work!! If you’re an ass to me….it won’t happen again…I’m too old for that shit!! I’m not gonna do something just because I think you will like me more for doing it….if you don’t like me for me…somebody else will!! It’s just that simple!!
I think way too people many people lose their own individuality when they get into a committed relationship….which creates resentment….those words…”the two shall become one” doesn’t mean you lose yourself…it means the two are working toward one goal in life…to work together… to become a partner and build together but remain as individuals….there has got to be “ME TIME” for both…you have to cut loose with your friends apart once in a while….but also have couple time….couples get too caught up in everyday life that they forget to treat each other as a couple…women tend to let themselves go and men just loose interest…then they get into this rut…both know something is wrong but neither know how to fix it…next thing you know…you’re in divorce court!!
Just because you’re married or in a committed relationship doesn’t mean it’s set in stone…nothing last forever…relationships require work…they require fizz….whatever you did to “get the girl or guy” shouldn’t stop when you do….if it does…then the relationship doesn’t really mean much to you!!
Passion, Authenticity, Confidence, and Receptivity……that is MR. RIGHT for me….for this is me….it is my own reflection of self….
So there you have it….Single and lovin’ it….Kissing frogs and one day….I’ll kiss the RIGHT one!!
PEACE AND LOVE
09 Apr 2012 Leave a Comment
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